When Patience Isn’t Enough

I’ve started to notice, here and there, in little remarks or responses, the revealing of the idea that patience is the key to how we, as a church, will get through the pandemic. And, in that idea, the exposure of a little kernel that we will, at some point, get back to “normal.” All we need to do now is to be patient.

It’s not an agenda item at meetings, nor is it articulated in a clear way. It’s just there, lingering on the edge of conversations or observations. Although our patience has been sorely tested through the pandemic, we just need to hang in there for just a bit longer. And, back to “normal” we will be.

I usually notice an inkling of this concept when we are talking about technology, especially when I suggest that we need to work on improvements in how we use technology. While the congregation of Old South has been, for the most part, extremely thankful for Zoom (especially when we were not able to meet in person) and remarkably eager to embrace this new thing, we are not where we could be, or should be. It’s as if learning how to join a Zoom meeting seems like plenty in the “learning new things” department.

After attending an online workshop on hybrid worship, I introduced the concept of an online worship greeter, someone who would do the same job as the in person greeter, only on Zoom. The “job” of the online greeter is to sign in early and greet each person who joins the worship service via Zoom, verbally or through the “chat” function. I thought this was a great idea and added to the list of Sunday tasks. No one has signed up.

Trying to expand the number of volunteers who handle the “tech” side of worship has been stubbornly problematic. A few have expressed interest, but the follow up for training has been lacking. And, then there are a couple of people who express a deep conviction that they simply are not capable of handling the tech side of worship, as if their brains aren’t wired correctly, In the background, there’s a lingering sense of why. Why do we need to continue to learn new stuff, when we will, at some point, be back to how things were before the pandemic?

Life in a small congregation like Old South has completely and utterly changed. The hard and clear truth is that we will not be sliding back into what we once were. The world has changed. We have changed. Like it or not.

Who and what we are now, and who and what we’ll be in the future, isn’t just about waiting out the pandemic, ready to return to how we once lived out our church existence. We will never go back there. There is no “back to normal” awaiting us.

The sooner we can embrace not only the new normal, but the fact that we are still very much in the midst of change, the more fulfilling our lives of faith will be.

In this season of Advent, we ought not be waiting and watching for when and how we will get back to what we were in early 2020. We ought not don patience as if it will protect us from the unpleasant new things that call to us. Instead, we ought to be alert for the new ways that God comes to us and in the new ways we are called to be God’s faithful, worshiping people.

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In a Quiet Moment

I’ve always been fascinated by certain moments of quiet, like during a worship service in a sanctuary with a bunch of people in it and everything becomes so hushed, as if a veil of silence has descended. It’s not just that it’s quiet. It’s a noticeable, palpable moment of time that feels pregnant with mystery and possibility.

Such a moment happened last Sunday during worship at Old South. The sanctuary wasn’t anywhere near full, but we had more people in person for a Sunday morning service than we’ve had since March 2020, including a couple of children (a total of about twenty-one people). Even with a much smaller group, the sanctuary is rarely quiet during worship. There is always some sort of noise, whether it’s the noise of talking, singing, sniffling, coughing, shuffling through something like a purse, or the noise that comes in from the outside. The sanctuary is not, most of the time, a place that conveys silence, unless it is empty.

Last Sunday was a communion Sunday. It was also Remembering Sunday (when we remember those who passed away during the last year). And, it was Story Sunday, a practice that I started a couple of years ago, where I occasionally share a children’s story during the homily slot, a story that connects nicely with the scripture passage of the day.

Sunday’s focus scripture from the Narrative Lectionary (which we are following this fall) was 1 Kings 19:1-18. In the passage, Elijah heads to the wilderness and encounters, in verse 12, God’s—depending on the translation—”sound of sheer silence” (NRSV) or “still, small voice” (KJV). To accompany this passage, I read The Quiet Book by Deborah Underwood, illustrated by Renata Liwska (thanks to https://storypath.upsem.edu for the suggestion). The book highlights the “many kinds of quiet” in a child’s life (and, by extension, the life of most adults), like “pretending you’re invisible quiet,” “swimming underwater quiet,” and “before the concert begins quiet.”

In the midst of sharing this book, and its illustrations, the sanctuary became more and more hushed, until it became completely and utterly silent between the sounds of my voice reading each page. The silence was so captivating that I began to slow down my reading, and the spaces between pages. I didn’t want to read the last page at all, as if I could keep the quiet and make it last.

Since I was facing the congregation and looking at them as I shared the illustrations, I knew full well that the quiet was not the result of sleeping parishioners. In fact, everyone looked fully engaged and connected.

And silent.

It was one of those moments that I wanted to capture in some way. I also wanted to pause and ask if everyone was perceiving what I was perceiving and what they thought about it. What was in that silence, for each of us and all of us together? Was this one of those “thin places” that is described in the 1 Kings passage as a “still small voice” or the “sound of sheer silence” in and through which God speaks? And, if so, what was God saying to us?

I don’t know what was said in the quiet that descended upon worship last Sunday. But I know to be grateful for it and to recognize it for what it was: holy.

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To Keep the Weariness at Bay

During the first years of my marriage and when my children were young, part of our annual family vacation involved a trip to the Outer Banks in North Carolina to spend time with extended family.  Over the course of our visit, we usually attended a Saturday mass, as my husband’s family is Roman Catholic.  At that time, the local church was not far from the beach, a bit of a ramshackle building, as it was really only used in the summer months when loads of Roman Catholics vacationed in the area.  Clergy were usually visiting, retired priests.  It was unclear how they got there, whether they were assigned or they were lured there with the promise of the proximity of the lovely, vast beach of the Outer Banks.

I don’t remember any of the priests I encountered when I attended mass, except one.  This particular priest led one mass during one of our vacations, sometime in the 1990s.  I don’t remember what he said exactly, but I what I remember with clarity is that he spoke and behaved in a way that exuded a clear weariness of the world, of humanity, and of his own journey as a clergyperson.  He was a man in the throes of despair.  At or near the end of a long career in ministry, he found himself with not a hint of joy or even contentment.  It was clear that he was bereft of any sense of having done well as a shepherd amid the flock.

I remember feeling, at first, pity for him.  Something had gone terribly awry with his relationship with his own ministry.  And, then I started to think about my own self, near the beginning of my ministry and hoping that I would not find myself in my later years full of misery, despair and weariness, similarly bereft of the sense of a job well, if imperfectly, done.

After about thirty years in ministry, the last sixteen at Old South, I wouldn’t say that I’m feeling fully in the throes of despair.  But, I can feel the weariness creeping in.

At Old South, we have been dealing with, on a variety of levels, the reality that faces many mainline Protestant churches in these days.  Attendance is lower.  The average age is higher.  With a smaller group, it’s much more challenging to sustain and maintain the buildings in which we gather.  These issues and problems are not new, nor are they unique to us.  In fact, several churches in our area have been forced to close.  Churches very much like our church.

The weariness begins to make its presence known whenever we have a focused conversation at governing board meetings on what we should do and how we should respond to the serious, unwelcome, issues we face.  Conversation after conversation includes largely the same conversation, despite the fact that we’ve been at this for years.  Several of those who are willing to speak at these meetings say the same thing, time after time.  And, there are a couple of people who say nothing at all, never contributing their thoughts, feelings, or concerns.  It’s as if we are a group of people who cannot listen to each other.  And have closed ourselves off from the movement of the Spirit in our midst.

It’s not that it’s completely terrible.  Having the conversation is certainly better than not, and there have been small glimmers of progress.   But, over time I’ve begun to feel that the group has developed an unspoken attitude that a willingness to discuss is enough, that they can avoid action if they can just keep the conversation going.  And, they keep the conversation going through a variety of methods.  There’s yet a crucial piece of information we should gather.  There’s an idea we haven’t adequately explored.  Etc. Etc.  There’s always a reason to push off any decision to move the conversation into action, or at least a plan toward action.

The issues we face are just as unwelcome for me, but it’s crystal clear to me that Old South must act, and move forward.  Otherwise, the church will find itself spending more and more of its resources to maintain its buildings, especially the very demanding building in which the sanctuary is located.  It is a lovely place in which to worship, but it is much too large for the current congregation.  The requirements of attention and funds of the sanctuary building will drain the church of resources that could be used more wisely and more faithfully elsewhere.

All of this leads me to feel sadness and frustration, not simply about the inability to listen, perceive, trust and act.  I also find myself wondering about my role as pastor.  Herding the flock can be an awful lot like herding cats, but I’ve waded through other perilous times with more of a sense of fulfillment, that the work, though hard, was good and meaningful.

Now, it feels much more precarious.  Or, maybe it’s just because I’m older and feeling a loss in the patience department.  Perhaps.  But, it also feels like there’s a fraying connection to what it means, deeply and powerfully, to be a community of faith, a people of God—now and into the future.  Is our common witness and identity focused more on what the church once was or how we wish it to be, rather than how we share God’s love, care and hope as we are, and how we are called to be?

That we appear to have such difficulty in maintaining a communal sense of who we are as the body of Christ is an enervating prospect. I may now have a better sense of what and how that weary visiting clergyperson on the Outer Banks was feeling and thinking. Though I didn’t express it at the time, I am grateful for that priest and for the memory I have of him. It keeps me from slipping off into the oblivion of despair, where one cannot minister effectively. The work is hard, yet I also know that I have a companion who offers to lighten the load and ease the burden.

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In Another Country

To prepare for a recent two-week trip to Italy, I tried to learn a little Italian.  Each day, I spent time with “the Owl” (aka Duolingo).  It didn’t help much.  When I got to Italy, I realized how little I had absorbed during those daily lessons over three months.  My lack of Italian didn’t matter much in Rome, as many people who work in and around tourism have at least some English.  During the walking tour of Umbria, though, language was much more of an issue.  There, I encountered people who knew no English at all.  I was in a different country, where I didn’t know the language and didn’t always understand customs, habits, or traditions.  On several occasions, I felt decidedly awkward and bewildered.

I sometimes have the very same feeling in the new church landscape in which I find myself.  After over twenty-five years of ordained ministry, the new reality of church life in a mainline church—in serious decline and dealing with the new, and oft changing, requirements of Covid—causes a great deal of disorientation.  I am in a different country. 

The language barriers are mostly in the technical area.  With hybrid worship and a lot of online meetings, I am learning many new things.  But, there are plenty of moments when I am simply baffled by concepts and terms, like when I went to purchase a webcam.  One of the recommendations offered “full HD, 1080p/30fps.” I have no idea what those numbers mean.   Searching for help from “Mr. Google” usually leads to more confusion. 

Around church people, language can be still more confusing—and fraught.  The words that are spoken are ones that I understand.  Yet, it’s often clear enough that the words are only the tip of a large, problematic iceberg.  Trying to delve into those thoughts, feelings and issues that comprise the iceberg is a complex and tangled endeavor.

In the midst of a smaller congregation and our new ways of gathering, there is much that looks and feels like traveling in a different country.  With the changes we have experienced, we are still trying to figure out what works, for individuals and the group, and how to meet the needs of most of the people who call Old South their spiritual home.  Along the way, we regularly encounter new challenges where I must be sensitive, discerning, hopeful and encouraging.

It is not easy.  As the one in the “pastor and teacher” role, I yearn for my own pastor and teacher who would easily shepherd me through the twists and turns of church in a time of decline and pandemic.  Sadly, I don’t have a crystal ball that will help guide me through the thornier patches, with a clearer sense of where we are going.  As I listen to the longings and frustrations of the congregation, I wish that I could join them, fully and completely, in their lamenting.  But, I cannot.

I need to keep learning the new language, embracing it and welcoming it. That is part of the call to ministry.  The relative comfort of leading a small congregation in the fall of 2019 and early winter of 2020 is no more, nor is it ever going to come back.  We are in a new place, with a new language and new challenges—and new opportunities.  

Just as in so many generations of the Church, we are faced with realities we would prefer to ignore.  Yet the Spirit beckons, gathering us in, offering comfort, but then setting us on our way, even when the path ahead looks and feels unfamiliar to us. It’s a new country. And there’s lots to explore.

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Telling Our Stories

I just returned from a two-week trip to Italy. The travel blog starts here: https://smritaly21.travellerspoint.com/1/

It’s a very interesting time in which to travel. My travel companions and I hatched the plan to go to Italy in late spring, when Italy announced its reopening in light of declining Covid rates. As the delta variant began to wreak havoc with the world through the summer, we debated whether or not it was wise/advisable/responsible to travel at all. In the end, we went, abiding as well as we could with restrictions, advisories and recommendations. Along the way, we were very grateful that we had our vaccination cards to flash whenever asked (and we were asked a lot), but wishing the US had got its act together for a meaningful digital option, which would have been much more convenient.

This trip to Italy began with several days in Rome for all three of us and then a walking tour through parts of Umbria and Assisi for two of us, while the third attended an in-residence workshop for artists.

I’ve been to Italy several times, but the Umbria and Assisi part of our trip was all new to me. And, with these new places (Orvieto, Morre, Spoleto, Assisi, and the little towns nearby) there were new churches to explore. Well, not “new” of course, but new to me.

All of the churches I visited were, no surprise, Roman Catholic. Some of the churches were so overwhelmingly stuffed full of stuff (paintings, sculptures, candles, devotional pieces, etc), I found myself glad that I wasn’t a part of a tradition that would take such an approach to the faith. It all seemed so busy, distracting and sometimes just plain bizarre. Other churches, though, were lovely and quiet refuges, with artistically offered pathways to the pondering of faith and story. How does each person and each community reflect on and find themselves part of God’s holy work? How does the faith, and its stories, find expression in the buildings in which we gather and how do those expressions inform, influence, convey, and carry forth the various elements of spiritual connection, whether mundane or profound?

The artwork of some churches seemed driven simply to scare people, using demons and the torments of hell to inspire, I suppose, faithfulness and good behavior. Here are a couple of photos from the Duomo in Orvieto:

Other churches offered fascinating windows into theology, story and the significance of the Trinity, especially Jesus Christ. While there was generally a consistency in the messaging from church to church, occasionally we would find something unexpected. One example is the Basilica di Santa Maria Trastevere, a minor basilica in the enchanting Trastevere neighborhood in Rome. This church is one of the oldest in Rome and includes some amazing mosaics from the 13th century. One of those mosaics, at the front of the church, above the altar, offers a picture of Jesus and his mother, as if both of them are working in concert as intermediaries between earth and heaven:

And, then there were the other places where we encountered interesting, and sometimes disturbing, elements of Christian-related storytelling. Take the Vatican Museums. In the Gallery of Tapestries—a long, narrow room with large tapestries on both long sides (on one side, tapestries depicting the life of Pope Urban VIII, and on the other, the life of Christ)—of the nine tapestries focused on Christ, THREE of them visualize the slaughter of the innocents from the second chapter of Matthew. I asked our tour guide if she had any thoughts or insights into the remarkable display of the murder of young children in the wake of the birth of Jesus. She did not.

Of all of the stories about Jesus in the Gospels, why does this single story, connected to only one of the Gospel writers (and not corroborated by any historical account) find its way to so many tapestries? And why is the Vatican so eager to display them?

I’ve been wondering quite a lot about story and the stories of our faith. Which stories mean the most to us, as individuals and as churches, and do those stories remain consistent over the course of our lives of faith, or do our attachments to stories alter as we age? How do we, and how should we, convey those stories to others? How do those stories find expression in how we live our lives, as people of faith?

Our stories are important. How our stories connect to those holy stories contained in scripture is also important, and worthy of serious contemplation. We may not be so inclined to paint a large mural, assemble an intricate mosaic or construct an enormous tapestry, but we should be about the work of wondering how we bring to life the sacred stories that feed our faith, as well as how we engage with those biblical stories that cause distress and pain. How do we tell our stories and how might we do so in ways that are yet more life-giving and life-affirming?

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Sound Complications

The transition to hybrid worship has been something of a trial.  While I’m comfortable holding worship on Zoom, and in person, it’s quite another thing to try to do both things at the same time.  I feel like all of the things that I’m least good at are being paraded in front of me on a regular basis.  Like so many others, this isn’t what I had in mind when I followed the call into ordained parish ministry—more than twenty-five years ago.

Yet, this is clearly the path.  Old South may be a small congregation, but we have some people for whom in person is the only way to really feel at worship and others who can only join us online.  So, hybrid it is.

After watching a lot of YouTube videos about hybrid worship, one of the things that I found especially mind-boggling was the fact that many of those videos that involved local church people featured people who are not the pastor of their local church.  Churches appear to have parishioners who are not only very comfortable with organizing and executing hybrid worship, but in some cases, there are people who do such work for a living, who also just happen to be active church goers.

Where can I get one of those?

At Old South, the “tech crew” is me and my husband.  While we’ve been learning a great deal about cameras, camera angles, internet access, etc, there’s one thing that has emerged as the most troublesome aspect of this whole enterprise:  sound.  I have a whole new appreciation for people who are called “sound engineers.”

Sound is a problem.  Sound is a challenge.  Sound is especially complicated now that we’ve moved worship into the sanctuary.  For those who join us in person, the sound quality is great.  Old South’s sanctuary is a good space, acoustically speaking.  For those who join us on Zoom, though, the sound quality is decidedly wanting.  Inexpensive microphones don’t pick up sound just as you think they should or wish they would.  They tend to have minds of their own, and they don’t communicate with the human crew very effectively.

For the online side of our new hybrid experience, the sound of worship is less than ideal, and it varies depending on the kind of sound.  When someone is speaking, the sound carries a hollow quality.  In the music department, the range has its own sense of drama.  Loud music or singing is rewarded with a decent sound quality online.  Softer music, from the piano or organ, is sent off to some other sphere of reality—sometimes barely heard, or wavering, as if it’s unsure about whether or not it should be listened to by human beings.

What’s the nature of a “joyful noise” in the midst of this new context? And, is it part of my role of pastor and teacher to wade through the various complications of sound to find our way to a more consistent sound experience, whether it be in person or virtual?

Or, better yet: where can I get one of those sound people?

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Days of Disconnection

During most summers, my husband and I spend several days with some friends on an island off the coast of Maine.  Getting to and from the island is a bit complicated, involving a ferry from the mainland to a large island, a drive from one side of that island to the other, then a small boat from the large island to a smaller island.  In the midst of it all, there’s the loading and unloading of a lot of stuff, plus the meal planning that happens before we even set out, since most of the food (and beverages) must be purchased well before the ferry. 

The island has no electricity and no running water, except for the collection of rainwater into cisterns for the washing of hands and dishes.  There are several buildings on the island and each building has a gas-powered range and refrigerator, so it’s not exactly a camping experience.  Each building has its accompanying outhouse, though, which really reinforces the sense of displacement from normal life—especially when one needs to visit an outhouse in the middle of the night.

In these days of cell phones and powerbanks, portable solar panels and communication towers dotting every landscape, we aren’t exactly cut off from the world.  But, it feels that way.

The older I get and the more that technology becomes a permanent fixture in my daily routine (at home and at work), I look forward to my days on the island, when I can feel disconnected.  These are days of respite and renewal. 

There are lots of trails to hike and strange mushrooms to marvel over.  A common question:  what sort do you think that one is?  There are lots and lots of rocks, some very large and many very small.  There are meadows full of blueberry bushes, although this year there were not a lot of blueberries (but enough to put in the cobbler on the last night).  We played games and shared stories.  We gathered for happy hour before dinner every evening, sitting in the Adirondack chairs in front of the main farmhouse.  We watched the lobster boats going about their work each day and enjoyed a fabulous lobster dinner one night, feasting on lobsters that had been caught that very day.  We were lulled to sleep by the gong buoy that sits at the mouth of the small harbor of Swans Island.

Disconnection is a wonderful and wondrous thing.  It doesn’t take long to realize that the natural world has a lot to share—from the songs and habits of birds, to the butterflies that seem completely fascinated by a thistle, to the water lapping against the land (sometimes gently, sometimes not so gently), to the fascinating colors found in a sunset.

It’s important to disengage from time to time, not only to be away from work and normal routine, but to put oneself in the midst of creation and to take time to allow one’s own sense of wonder to be renewed.

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The Ties that Bind, to a Building

In Colonial New England, the first public building erected in a settled town was usually something called a “meetinghouse.”  This building was used for gatherings, especially gatherings of the faithful for regular worship.  The concept of meetinghouse was intended to convey that the “church” was not the building, but the people who gathered there.

It’s a shame that the word “meetinghouse” is no longer widely used—or practiced. For aging and shrinking congregations, buildings are a problem.  They cost a great deal in maintenance and utilities.  Yet, it can be difficult to cut the ties between congregation and building.  Sure, it’s emotional to consider putting a church building up for sale.  And the whole situation is harder still when the church and the building in which it gathers become entwined, as if they are the same thing.  The complications continue when the church building is more beloved among those who do not regularly gather with the assembled faithful.  Somehow, there are people who feel a deep connection to the building itself, as if the very existence of the building as a “church” is all that they need to think of themselves as part of that “church,” even if they rarely, if ever, attend a worship service.

At the church that I serve—Old South Congregational Church, United Church of Christ—in Hallowell, Maine, we are poised to begin serious conversations about our buildings.  Yes, that’s plural.  We have two—a sanctuary building (where, not surprisingly, the sanctuary is located) and a parish house (where offices, classrooms, a kitchen and a fellowship hall are located).  With an average weekly worship attendance in the thirties, even one building is a bit of a burden.  Two is simply unsustainable, tipping the balance of church finances away from ministry and mission.

The governing body has been dipping its toes into this thorny, sensitive subject over the course of the last few years.  One of the issues that hampers the conversation is that the building with the lion share of emotional attachment—the sanctuary building—is clearly the more problematic one.   The building with its large, imposing organ, is lovely. But, it has no office space and it doesn’t even have a phone line, much less internet access.  And, perhaps the biggest problem is that the building is nestled neatly into a steep hill, with very little parking.  In bad weather, getting into the building can be hazardous.

If we are to shed a building, it should be the sanctuary building.  Understandably, that’s a hard thing to contemplate, and still harder to act upon.

Interestingly, many of those who have remained actively connected to Old South through the pandemic—attending worship and meetings online—are starting to acknowledge that their ties to the sanctuary building are not as strong as they once were.  Even those who spoke up before the pandemic about the spiritual significance of the sanctuary building, are now beginning to reflect on the fact that a year and a half without the building has brought a remarkable discovery: the ties to the sanctuary are not that strong.  Instead, it’s the congregation that matters.  It’s the people who have helped them to maintain connection and to grow spiritually.  While the buildings are convenient, they hold much less spiritual significance. For these folks, there’s a new awareness of the old New England concept of “meetinghouse.”

Not everyone, though, has been with us through this journey.  Not all of Old South’s members have attended online worship and gatherings. I haven’t surveyed each and every one, but I am well aware of at least a few people who have been very vocal about the fact that, for them, there is no worship without the sanctuary building.  It is in the sanctuary where they experience God.

The path ahead will be difficult, to say the least.  Will those who have become, through experience, more inclined to the meetinghouse model remain so?  How will we navigate the differences of perception and experience between those who gain greater awareness of God’s presence through the gathering of the faithful or through bricks and mortar (or, in the case of Old South, granite and mortar)?

Through our discussions, contemplations, reflections and arguments, will we continue to “meet” God, with a deep appreciation for the ties that really matter? Will we be able to extend our journey into the future, open to what the Spirit has in store for us, including the possibility that we are called to be something that we cannot, at this point, even imagine? Or, will we get so weighed down by the building(s) that the ties that connect us to the Divine, and to each other, will unravel and break apart?

These are all deeply important questions that must be considered and prayed over, over and over again, as we move into what’s next for Old South, as we learn in new ways what it means for us to be church.

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Tending to the Aggression

But now you must get rid of all such things: anger, wrath, malice, slander and abusive language from your mouth. (Colossians 3:8)

This aggression won’t stand, man. (The Dude, The Big Lewbowski)

I live in a part of the world where Donald Trump is popular.  In the 2020 election, Mr. Trump received over 52% of the vote in the town where I live, Belgrade, Maine (about same as in 2016).  In the town just south of Belgrade, Sidney, Mr. Trump received a still greater share of the vote—57.14% in 2020 and 55.2% in 2016.   

Many of those who supported, and continue to support, Mr. Trump are not shy about their enthusiasm. During the 2020 election season, I dreaded my drive through Sidney, driving from home to church and back again.  I started to refer to my journey as a ride through “the gauntlet.”  Several houses and businesses not only posted Trump campaign signs, but went all out with flags and banners on almost every external surface that faced the road that connects the Belgrade Lakes area with Augusta, the state capital. 

The post-election season brought, thankfully, a reduction in signage.  Many of the flags and banners were taken down, although there are a few that remain.  That doesn’t mean that there aren’t flags and banners aplenty.  It just seems that they’ve been taken off of the lawn and the buildings—and attached to poles that are connected to the beds of pickup trucks.  And, the messaging has also ramped up, with much more in the way of obscenity-laced intention like, “F__K Biden” and so forth.  There’s one guy who seems to relish driving his obnoxious flags through the most liberal areas in this part of the world, including the small city where Old South is located—Hallowell—well-known as a bastion of liberality (where Mr. Biden won almost 72% of the vote in 2020).  The truck is sometimes spotted multiple times in a day, as he drives circuits around the downtown area.

The issue of the signs, and the flags, and the ramping up of aggressive language has been the subject of many conversations.  In the midst of a few of these discussions regarding the heightening sense of aggression of Trump followers, I’ve discovered that there’s plenty of aggression to go around.  Even a few good church folk have casually mentioned their very angry responses to the bold signage of Trump followers.

And, then there’s my own reaction.  During election season, as I drove through the gauntlet (not as often as usual, thanks to the pandemic), I found myself increasingly agitated and irritated.  On a few occasions, I boldly yelled my own angry response—from my moving vehicle with its windows all tightly closed.  I even felt the desire to offer a certain hand gesture.  Truth be told, I may have actually done so on a couple of occasions.

I may loathe the belligerence shown by Trump followers, but what about my own hostility?  I may be soothed somewhat by a feeling that they started it, that their side came out punching first and not just in the latest presidential election.  While I’m sure there are angry signs and banners pointing at Trump, I don’t see any of those in this part of the world.  And I haven’t seen vehicles sporting large flags declaring “F__K Trump.”

Still, the level of anger and hostility concerns me, including my own.  What happens when aggression is met with aggression?  And, what about the call of good church folk to be people of peace, the turning of the other cheek? What am I doing to get rid of anger, malice, slander and abusive language? Can I challenge myself to put aside the anger and aggression and meet hostility with calmness and peace?

These are all important questions, and still more important for people of faith, individually and collectively. The path ahead may not be an easy one, but it seems clear as day.

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Give Me a Groan!

We know that the whole creation has been groaning in labor pains until now; and not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly while we wait for adoption, the redemption of our bodies. For in hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what is seen? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but that very Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words. And God, who searches the heart, knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God.

Romans 8:22-27

For this year’s Pentecost observance at Old South, we spent much less time focusing on the most common Pentecost passage—Acts 2—and more on one of the other readings from the lectionary: Romans 8:22-27.  On Pentecost, I’m usually drawn—year after year—on the dramatic passage from Acts.  The mighty wind, the tongues of fire, the various languages, the accusation of drunkenness.  There’s just so much to like, so much to consider, so much great material.

It was all so different this year.  The Acts passage didn’t resonate as it normally does.  So, I found myself floundering a bit, wondering what I was going to do.  Lots of Old South folk would be getting into the Pentecost vibe, wearing some sort of red.  What could I say, or do, that would feel inspiring and dramatic?

And, then I found it.  In his letter to the church in Rome, Paul offering just what I needed now, in 2021 Hallowell, Maine—groaning, sighing and pain. 

For this moment in which we find ourselves, in the context of the last year plus a few months, this is just the thing—acknowledging the groaning, sighing and pain that the pandemic has brought, as we have become the new thing that we are.  And, appreciating that what’s next will very likely bring its own groaning and sighing.  And pain.

At the start of the pandemic, Old South—small congregation filled mostly with post-retirement folks—was willing to try a lot of new things.  Most of them, anyway.  We moved to a mostly remote worship and then a fully remote worship.  We endeavored to make worship both new and old at the same time, with music and a participatory experience.  It helped a lot that the Music Director regularly recorded preludes and postludes from the church sanctuary.  The Music Director also gathered a group of “hymn singers” who have been recording hymns for worship, with the words added to the video. And, we brought our new knowledge to meetings and other gatherings. We also tried some new tricks for worship, like slide shows and other visual devices. We even worshiped with another congregation from time to time.

Did this transition happen with joy, excitement and enthusiasm?  With a spirit of “let’s try more new things!”? 

In a word:  no.  There was a lot of groaning and sighing.  And, the utterance of bad words.

Like lots of other good church people, we did what we had to do.  Mostly.  Some wouldn’t go along, no matter how much coaching was offered.  Others were suspicious of worshiping online, declaring that it felt an awful lot like “social media.”  For those willing to brave this new thing, there was a fair amount of what I would call a willing spirit.  Sure, let’s give this new thing a try, if it will keep us together as a community.  But, that didn’t mean that the groaning would be set aside.

There was groaning.  And sighing.  And, other expressions of frustration.  But, we managed, and came up with something that was worshipful and meaningful. We have grown, spiritually speaking, as a community of faith.

Now, we must bring our groaning, sighing spirits to what’s next.  While it may be tempting to just slide back into what we were, we know that we cannot.  We’ve left that behind. 

What’s ahead, however we are able to be a hybrid church, will very likely include a lot of groaning.  And sighing. And, the utterance of some bad words.

So, bring on the groans, and the sighs, for they are signs of the Spirit with us.

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